LunaticSoul, if you don't know the answer, then why are you refuting everything everyone is saying? You come on here, claiming you want answers; but then you dispute what everyone says. You keep making excuses and telling us that what you're doing is okay and normal. If you have already decided that, and you don't want to hear anyone out, then you are just wasting your time and everyone else's. I know that's harsh, but........