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Originally Posted by marieburch
It's not only what he is saying. It's putting me out of the house and I'm hopping from friend to friend. I have a duffle bag of clothes and my small lap dog with me. His family won't speak to me and I think it's because of them thinking it's all my fault. I'm going to get therapy because I'm so confused and hurt. I'm feeling like I'm a horrible person. I thought he and his family loved me.
He said if he lets me come home he wants to be the king of the house.
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You don't say where you live, but in the US, your husband cannot just throw you out of your home, and he has an obligation to support you. Go home, tell him that if he is upset he can leave and go live with his mother, but that you are staying in your home. He needs to see a counselor for whatever his emotional difficulty is; and I think you need your own separate counselor. His family should have no say in your marriage. If you are in another country with a different set of cultural 'rules'; then you already know which common standards your husband is breaking and you should seek whatever is accepted as the equivalent of a counselor for some intervention. Stand up for yourself. If your husband was adult enough to
get married, he needs to be adult
in the marriage.