I have a bad habit of posting unsolicited advice, and also of relating my own experiences in response to an OP. I do this IRL also because I am socially inept. I got called on it in a very public and degrading way at work one day. So now I very rarely post and absolutely refuse to start any more threads.

I don't mean to be dismissive, and I don't mean to tell people "you think that's bad, listen to this!" in a one-up way; but it has been pointed out to me that other posters perceive negative connotations in my posts.

So this forum has become a voyeuristic pastime for me. I can read other's posts, and absorb other's experiences, but I can no longer participate in any real way.

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