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Originally Posted by mian síoraí
I agree with most of what your saying, ID, good post. It would be boring. And conflict is not 'bad' into, it can be healthy, but it can also be destructive if it escalates to a certain point.
Just wanted to add part of being grown up IS respecting another's boundaries.  |
I agree with you. I have not suggested anything to the contrary.
I also think that when it comes to boundaries, they can only be respected when we know clearly what they are. And because we don't tend to operate like therapists and outline boundaries at the start of every relationship, in the real world we step on other people's toes sometimes, without meaning to, and then we know where their boundaries are and can respect them then.