In my country is called being a racial person. But this is not other thing than giving possitive meaning to something I am living as a hell. Because of the consequences for others and for me.
It's now that I'm realizing that I have this problem. I was totally unawared of it. I don't know if it's because my loved people love me so much that they have cope with it with so many patience, or bc this also have a positive side, I'm also impulsive in showing affection. So, everybody seem to be please with me: my kids(learners, my partner, my relatives and friends).

Said that, I know it is something I have to sort out. I don't want to hurt my loved people.

How to get your feelings rest so up to let space for the rational part of my brain and don't mess it up. Bc I'm a very reasonable. I always find the good or the right way to manage a situation but I sometimes don't give me the necessary time.

I guess I need work this on therapy. Meanwhile, can I do something? Or have you got something to tell me in this topic?