Hi all

So I've been with my girl for 6 months now, and I've noticed that I'm getting really anxious and depressed when we can't spend time together. Because of our jobs we cannot see each other sometimes for 6 days at a time, and we won't be sleeping in the same bed just shy of 2 weeks... I've noticed that I'm getting angry as well, now the strange thing is it's like a roll reversal from my last girlfriend.

If I carry on with my little comments about how we don't spend more time with each other I feel she'll not want to be with me, she's stated that I can't keep going mad with her for lack of communication. Sometimes though she is to blame and It's not like if she doesn't reply for 30 mins, it was 12 hours the other day and I see that as unacceptable and I told her this, we hadn't seen each other for around 6 days so a simple text is a given right? Or today for instance we had a lovely day and then I had to take her home early as she wasn't well and had something to do, sounds like no problem? But she spent all day the day before with friends and all night, it is her birthday mind so I don't mind really. But I only get 7 hours today and I couldn't help myself to say something which was "We hardly got much time with each other" her reply was "Why do you do that it ruins a good day", she later said I didn't ruin it but i only say it cause i miss her...

I never used to have fear that she'd leave me but all of sudden as shes mentioned houses and moving out it's kinda come out of the blue, I'm fine when I'm with her but when I'm not I don't wanna do anything including working... Now I've started a new job so I can't let it keep getting to me. I used to love playing my xbox and seeing my mates, and all of a sudden I don't want to... Why has this suddenly come along??

I used to suffer with depression and I'm wondering if I go back on the meds it might help me? I don't wanna lose her I love her to bits and we are putting savings away for a house .

I guess the way I'm thinking is that she'll leave me for no reason and if I have a problem I feel she'll leave me, I had this with my ex and I took the rubbish for ages until it made me crack and I left her, I've only been like this for a month, she knows how I feel but I don't really tell her as she won't like that and I know that for a fact. I get feelings that she doesn't want to see me and I'm not a priority... I know that there's a reason to this maybe a trigger?? I just don't know what.

Any help would be great

Danny
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