Feelings! I got handed a large and time consuming project at work, trained and fully understood how to handle it, then the person whose brainchild it is asked me how I felt about taking it on. I replied that I had no feelings about it, I do the jobs I'm asked to do to the best of my ability. The next day the project was given to someone else. I guess the fact that I didn't appear overjoyed to adopt his baby offended him. I still have no feelings about the whole thing!
When you've been taught not to have an opinion, and been told how you feel all your life, how do you suddenly begin to have feelings?
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