We live in California. He says he is having a mental breakdown due to work. Yet to cover it up he told his family its me. He works in the family business and dislikes his job. Yet he wont tell the family its the job (i'm the scapegoat). The only thing I could think of is he doesn't want to let them down. Yes I am going to get therapy on my own.
My question is why is he doing this to me? If he wants a divorce he just needs to say it. Ive asked him and he says he doesnt. Does he sound like he is having some sort of mental issue?