by seamless I mean each alter had its place and knew where it should be and when it should be out. and by being seamless they weren't caught out they were never ridiculed and knew where to be and when as that was why they were and are needed. Now I find myself with extra alters spawned by circumstances other than my basic needs. Alters who evolved to cope with being caught and trying to fix things one destructive to my relationship and scared to death the other despertly trying to heal me and fix it all including erradicating the items the other alters value, with this conflict, what the heck do I do? How do you settle the new alter in with the others without finding yourself 2000 miles away living as some other person 10 years missing and wondering how the heck you got in toledo when your from florida originally? It's the OMG I changed and poof wandered off that scares me. How do I feel safe again? That one of me wont' wreck my life?