"He who seeks revenge shall dig two graves" ~Chinese Proverb

Taking revenge on those who wronged you will only serve to perpetuate the relationships you have with them. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life tied to them?

Revenge may make you feel better short term, but then what? The people you punish have friends and family. What will you do when they decide to take revenge on you?
Do you really want to spend your life looking over your shoulder?

Vengeance won't get you the woman and it won't change the past.

Reality is seldom as good as the fantasy.