Default Re: A grade daughter doesn't want to "stand out"
THanks for your replies. I hear your point, maybe I'm being too demanding of her?

'So you both think I should allow her to coast along getting B's and C's now for her final year of primary school? I don't know if I'd be ok with that, given what she's capable of. Deep down, I don't think she would be either.'

I feel the best you can do for her is 'be there' listen to her, be positive, supportive, try not to criticize.
She is an individual who will find her own level in her own time.
If you push her too much she will become miserable. You sound rather status driven.

Give her space to be herself, don't pressurize her. Shes a clever girl she will be successful in her own time.

I dont know what a 'Dux' is.