Well, the mistake you actually seem to have made is one of assumption: not all of us here are considered mentally ill. And even if we are, it doesn't mean we're mentally deficient or lack common sense or judgment. Just like being diabetic or having any other illness doesn't mean any of those things.

If everyone (but us, it seems) is giving you the green light, I'm wondering why you've come back to this thread? Why not just go ahead and text the guy? I'm sorry that you didn't receive the answer you wanted from the people on this forum, but please don't come on here and insult the people (even subversively) who have taken the time to answer a question you asked because of it. The people here are awesome and don't deserve that. You asked a question in a public forum and when you do that, you open yourself up to whatever answer you're going to receive and, unless there is blatant bullying or insult (which there is not in this case) you need to be ready to be okay with that answer regardless of what it is.

I actually remember the thread about the t who kissed you and from what I remember of it, I don't feel like you actually want our advice. I feel like this thread is heading in the same direction, so this is the last post I will be making on this one. I wish you the best. Take care.