To "Christina"

My hubby, he did all these stuff when he was my boyfriend, 'stares at my facial expression during sex", etc.... He did this before. It just now we married so he have more chance of doing it. So now I'm facing it more and more because he is my husband now.
We got married on February 6th, 2015 at a simple and quick City Hall/Courthosue wedding ceremony. With 2 witness": his mother and my older brother.

This was the best route for us, due the circumstances of my Chinese mother disapprove him. I didn’t see a point of a wedding because pretty much nobody on my side of the family gonna show up.

This whole realstionship wasn't easy on us. I have my own emotional baggage, regarding my mother who always emotionally/verbally abusive to me and belittle me in my childhood. It make me have low self-worth as an adult.
And she making it harder on me when she disapprove my then boyfriend, now husband.

btw, Mom have no control over me, she just likes to acts like 'mommy' and boss me around.
I left my mom house when I was 18, and I survived on my own without her help for more than a decade. I'm 30 this year, and mom still try to control my life. From control who I date to who I married.

Mom have not spoke to me eversince I got married to my husband. Even when I call home, she still doesn't want to talk to me. I only talk to my old father over the phone now.
Mother she very stubborn, she won't change. Which is fine, I won't put my life on hold just to wait for her to change her view on my husband.