Can you make body rules with your alters? Take a notebook and write them down? Are you able to talk to them? We were starting to get unruly again, so we laid out some ground rules, like who hosts when and where, whose in charge of what, the body is to go in this direction, and can we all get along. Granted I have a few rebels that like to do what they want to do but I also have alters that keeps them in their place, unless something stupid happens like I lose control because I drank too much then they jump out there and I have to play damage control the next day.