I carry my T's business card in my wallet. So really, it could easily be found out by someone at home, should they go through my wallet.... I don't know why I carry it, I don't use the phone number listed on it, I have her cell # and we text, or Email if need be. I have never called her. She only called me once, when I was in a bit of a crisis last fall. So in 9 months, that's the only time I ever spoke with T on the phone.