Setting boundaries, is a tough one, based upon this opening post. toolman65, asks an important question about anything else going on with her, in her own life. Plus, boundary recommendations get iffy, since some of the better reads out there, focus on personality disorders which can in many ways become unfair due to the labeling involved and the fact that such a label may, indeed, be false. Some can have similar traits without being disordered.
Boundaries oft come down to two people making compromises and being willing to work towards a solution, recognizing that the relationship isn't fully functioning, hence boundaries oft discussed with marriages and romantic relationships.
With parents, it's a whole other set of circumstances.

What can you do, to protect your desired privacy. As an adult, there's no reason for anyone to read texts, etc,. Without your permission.

How are you, expected to navigate your social independence and reach your own conclusions with biting, negative remarks?

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