I just want to echo what everyone else said. This man has no right to abuse you, kick you out of your home, or blame you for everything. Those are all hostile actions. Unfortunately, the only thing allowing him to do those things to you is you. You have to be the one to stand up for yourself, because no one else can do that for you. He wants to be "king of the house." Well you're Queen! Don't give him control over you.

Did you get back into your home yet? How are things going?