I am so sorry you were hurt by her. It sounds like you did a good job getting away from your husband. You also got a good job and was sweet enough to try and send your mom some money. As a Mom myself, I admire you and send you a hug. I go to a group called AL anon which helps me a little. A lot of the ladies there have come from families that didn't work very well or had a marriage with a troubled person. We give each other hugs and laugh at how we are trying to make our lives better. Take care of yourself.