I agree with StbGuy here.

Being gifted and talented can have many repercussions when you are singled out and other kids are jealous. Kids can play dirty. Real dirty.

It seems like your daughter is very well aware of this fact. She has a good sense of what is or is not socially accepted. While it is great to gain recognition, if she risks losing her friendships and sense of belonging, then is the award really worth it?

That question is for her to answer.

I know it is hard for you to watch her sabotage herself. Since you have also just moved to the area, I am guessing switching schools so that she is with other children of her same intelligence level is not an option?