I'm trying to set up a session with Madame T.
It occurs to me that there will be a couples therapist in the room. Maybe she can help.

You do couples therapy. Can you take a step back and look at our relationship as if we were a couple coming to you for help?
As a couples therapist, how do you view our relationship?
As a couples therapist, what do have to say to me?
As a couples therapist, what do you have to say to yourself?