I was abused in Both States,but most of it was here in Utah!It started when I was a baby in California,then my family moved to Utah,and it continued here in Utah.Yes I am a female.I have 9 brothers,and 1 sister she was abused to! My mom let it happen,because her father abused her,so she figured it was only fair,so it was the oldest brother that did the abusing,and my Mom just let it happen,and we were threatened that we weren't to tell my Dad or my Mom would beat us,and my brother threatened to kill us if we said anything about what he was doing to us!Now my Dad is dead,and my Mom is rubbing it in my face that thiers no one to stick up for me now,because I didn't keep it as the family secret when I was young,I told my Dad,and he found out it was true,he even divorced my Mom.My Brother is also rubbing it in my face that he got away with it,and now my Dad's not around to say it's true!Just constant harrassment,I'm trying to get back to California,where I made my home In San Diego as an Adult,and get away from my family.