Great explanation. I have to ask, why are all of the stories wriiten by women and why do I feel like the only dude on this earth that deals with this same thinking behavior?

Seriously. As a man, I am supposed to be mentally and physically stronger than females per the Bible. If I suffer from this garbage too, how will I ever get involved in another relationship again. Believe me, I need someone more than ever in my life, but I am so whacked out that I don't know how or where to start in this middle aged epitomy of hell.