If he went to one prostitute and then was pressuring you for sex because he liked it--that I could understand and maybe forgive. But 10? And then he confesses to his pastor like that's supposed to make it okay with you--he went to church first--golly gee, forgive him then. (sarcasm)

I'm sorry you changed so much of your life for someone that didn't work out. At least you found this out before you married the mistake.