Is there any way you could suggest having a night in with friends and drinks? It seems like a good compromise between being able to socialize and not having to deal with a bunch of drunk loud people you don't know.

Also in my experience with drug tests and pot, 3 months is more than enough time for your system to be clear. A lot of it has to do with weight and how much water you drink too. The thinner you are, the faster it will come out of your system. Try to drink 8 glasses a day if you don't already, and on the day of your test, drink a few big glasses a few hours before. The more your per is diluted, the less thc will show up, if any by this point. I have made the decision to quit weed too for the second time because of my bipolar. I get very lazy/lethargic and I don't want the weed adding to that. It's hard because my husband and his two friends which are like brothers to me still smoke in front of me and sometimes I want to join them. One of the friends that I am closest to lives with his parents, is single, and doesn't have a job. He is 29 and has no diagnosed mental illnesses (though I think he should probably consider seeing someone.) Yet whenever he gets his hands on money, he is spending it on weed. He says his mother has threatened to throw him out over the weed, but yet he still won't quit. He'll go out in the middle of the night and smoke behind a tree. His mom also gives him a hard time about eating their food, which I can understand, yet he still spends his money on that crap instead of getting himself some stuff to eat. This is another reason I have quit. I don't know how my husband and his other friend can deny that the weed is hurting him or at the very least not helping. They are enablers and the whole situation just makes me sad.

Sorry to go off on a tangent there... the point is, I know how it is to want to smoke, but I just keep reminding myself of the reason I quit and of all the benefits I receive from quitting. I hope you can do the same and maybe it will help you a little bit too.