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I'm going to repeat what others have said.
Go for some counseling away from the church. I agree with the person who said church based counseling might push you to forgive him and get married. Give yourself plenty of time to work through your feelings about what he did before you make any major decisions. Both individual and couples counseling would be a good idea.
I would insist he have himself tested for all STDs including HIV.Having your self tested might not be a bad idea either. Who knows what he exposed you to.
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