Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry to hear you have a tumultuous relationship with your daughter. I have found there are not bad mothers or bad daughters, but abrasive and unworkable relationships. Unfortunately your daughter has not matured enough to face her own stuff. Maybe some day she will. Meanwhile it is time to focus on getting healing for yourself.

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