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Old Feb 25, 2015, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by alimak View Post
What your thoughts about a T that constantly says he cares a lot of you? Usually in the content of:

Me: I give up.
T: no, don't. I care a lot about you.

Or

Me: I don't even know if therapy working. I am just going to stop coming.
T: I wouldn't like to see that. I like it when you come. I care a lot about you.

Am I just reading more into it than what it is (wishful thinking??)
I would have to consider body language and non-verbal communication as well as past interactions.

My exT said things like this and because I was already madly in love with her, it left me confused and wanting to know more. Eventually it became unbearable, all the ambiguity and the speculation about T's feelings toward me.
So I asked for clarity.