(((((Alexandra)))))
So glad you checked in. Sometimes those sessions when we are sleep or otherwise feelng "deprived" have a way of giving us time with T in a "naked" way--in that we might not have the energy to employ all of our defenses. I have found that those sessions that feel light on the surface are anything but light when a few days have elapsed and I have had more time to integrate the therapy.
So sorry for your friend. I will keep hiim (and you) in my prayers.
Cheers.