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Originally Posted by melania
I won't report him at the time I'm pregnant and I think that I couldn't forgive myself if I reported him, I would ruin his life, I don;t want to ruin anyone's life. It was my fault too. I got what I wanted.
It's really hard for now because I can't take meds anymore and anxiety is killing me. Sometimes I think I want to go to the hospital to feel safe.
I know I have to tell my T I'm pregnant but I'm so scared.
I don't think he abused me, I think he was weak. It's better not to think what he would do with other women, I don't want to destroy myself thinking about it, I know nothing about it but sometimes I want to stalk him.
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I'll repeat that the most important thing is for you to think about what you want to do. I don't know the laws of child support where you are but as it is his child, you should makemsure he knows and takes responsibility. I know you care about him and therefore don't want to do anything you perceive as hurtful to him. However, Weak moment or not, he is an adult and should face the consequences of his actions. You certainly have to, so why shouldnt he?
I believe he abused his position and took advantage of you, but even if you don't agree please at least do what is in the best interest of you and the baby. I would also see a doctor soon about your meds. I know the thinking is
different in Europe but in the US many women manage to take some ADs successfully during pregnancy, I took Paxil during my third and it was a great help and there were no issues at all.