the best thing i ever learned was to say "its not about me". when people say hurtful things, they are wanting to hurt. it is usually because they are hurting and wanting to lash out and make others feel miserable like they do. or they are ignorant, or mean. the point is, it is about THEM not ME. So i can take in stride what they say because it is their problem not mine. if i let them hurt me i am giving them power and i am not going to give them the satisfaction.

as for packing, how tired are you? will you forget things if you pack tonight? how early are you leaving? will you be able to get up earlier to pack before you go? i rather sleep in as long as possible so i always pack the night before so if i had to leave at eight i wouldnt want to be packing at six, but if i didnt have to leave till noon, i would wait for the morning.

take care