Not disparaging the subject of this post, but the thought of having intimate sexual contact with more than one partner is really pretty frighening to me. Yes, I've posted humorously here in this thread myself.
Really, though, WHY would one really want to engage in something so intimate with more than one partner at a time???
Just after my divorce, I became involved with a much younger fella (who turned dangerous stalker) who revealed tome while in bed that one of his fantasies was "threesome." I was so swept off my feet at the time, I can't even remember if or how I responded.
My true thoughts are that sexual intimacy should be an expression of love between two, and only two people. Sadly, I haven't found this.
Having said this, Sandy, just know I like you, and my post is only a reflection of my own desire for a loving relationship. To engage in something so intimate with multiple partners would be sad for me, and humiliating!
Patty