Borderline traits increase over time - when they are untreated.
With treatment, they improve, and much more than avoidants.
It's silly to be afraid of getting a correct diagnosis. If you had cancer, would you rather do nothing and keep getting sicker, or go to a doctor so you can get better?
I think you're looking for excuses.
Like you said, you can get away with bad behavior now.
You're going to have to take responsibility for yourself one of these days.
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