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Old Feb 26, 2015, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted by zombiemermaids View Post
A lot of people with anxiety mention the tight chest, sweating, shaking, etc.
I definitely have the shaking (trembling, foot shaking out of control) thing.

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.... I was always a bit of a softy child (or rather, a softy child who hid it under a lot of humor)
Oh this is definitely me. I recall my mother saying how I had such a "tender" heart (her way of calling me wuss). Which my older brother attempted to beat out of me (he HATED that part of me).

As for the using humor to deflect - I think that is a self defense thing that we learn growing up - when society gives us disapproval (verbal or non-verbal) of how we express our emotions.

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I can be...well....weepy.
I am the father of two girls (19 & 15) and if we watch a movie together - it will always be me who is the first to cry at the sad parts..... Nearly 50 years old and it is *me* who is the drama queen.

grrrr