I actually thought that may have been her way of making amends, but when I took a while to answer her she said she could find someone else. Then when I was honest with her about how I felt about it, she said she figured I felt that way and that "she wants a friendship I don't want" and that she'd find someone else. From my point of view, she is the kind of person to dump her responsibilities on other people. The year I lived with her, my mother in law took care of her child more than she did and she was a stay at home mom. I guess my point is that I feel that I've reached a point where I either need to figure out how to let go, or cut her out. And I'm not sure how to do either without coming across as either weak or an ***.