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Old Feb 26, 2015, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by LindaLu View Post
Good point. Better to discuss openly than assume, or ruminate. Might try that myself
I will say that my T resisted, using the reasoning that therapy is about my feelings, not hers. And that one must be able to tolerate ambiguity and so on.

But to me is was very unnatural to be in such an intimate relationship and have one person withhold their feelings. Maybe psych theory would advise such a thing, but it caused such distress and confusion. However, one might not like the answer to question...
Thanks for this!
LindaLu