How can I forgive my mother's impossible limitedness? I know she got hurt big time growing up with a violent alcoholic father and a passive un-loving mother, but how come she never got help.. I know no one here can answer that for her. I just don't get it. Did she not realise I was her responsibility when she became a mother? Did she not realise she was hurting me by leaving me alone.. Did she not care? I don't think she did. She's spiteful - doesn't want me to be happy because she wasn't/hasn't been..

Think I just needed to get this out.. Thanks for reading.