mine is very forceful, he's a martial arts expert...and he has scared me before,..but I believe he is a very good pdoc and truly has my best interest at heart...I always ask him not to yell at me at the beginning of every visit,,he only has a few times because I was cutting my meds... as I have gotten better (more stable and calm) our relationship has got better,,, the last visit was like two old friends talking.....I hope you find that kind of relationship ...maybe you can express your feelings to him....