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Old Jun 04, 2007, 07:59 PM
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About 3 months ago, I decided I needed to take a break from therapy from her because there were some health insurance issues, work issues, the stress of the issues I was dealing with in therapy and then my attachment to my relationship in general

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You know, I feel for you in that you feel she abandoned you and did so inappropriately, however, I don't think filing a complaint is going to give you any kind of closure.

You left her 3 months ago. Regardless of what you said and she said or anyone think was said since, the next legal thing, after you left therapy 3 months ago, was a quite appropriate termination letter. I don't think any board will find any problem with this at all. ( I can be wrong though.)

If you really want closure, realize that you are not in the best state of mind for making such a decision. Filing complaints are not usually taken lightly, and you will definitely mark yourself as someone no therapist can fully trust. If you have a new T, then forget the old issue of complaining. What if the new T can help you realize a different perspective on the situation, and you had already filed and put the old T through that??? Not to mention the stress and emphasis it filing a complaint will put on you. While I dare not suggest that just because someone is in need of therapy that their claims are unfounded, your history will be reviewed also. If you really want closure, move on. You don't wish to taint or scare your new T, and you do need to work through the issue with someone.

If, after working through it you and your new T find inappropriate actions on the part of the former T, you can discuss your options then.

good wishes.
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