Could it be that you are getting into deeper work now and the space beween you is a defense? (unconscious, of course)

It is so hard maintaining the connection from visit to visit. I think if you could articulate what it is you need from T, you may find the connection is gaining depth again. I know it's hard, but necessary.

Good luck, it sounds like you want to make this work, so I am sure you will find a way.