The question is in what grade you are influenced by others opinions or impressions about you.
I want to be clear that I'm referring to the perception (subjective) we have about other people's impression about us unless we can ask and talk with this person and he/she honestely gives us his/her opinión.
I would like to know your case.

Ok, I'm gonna share mine with you.
I have a quite high level of self-steem now that I don't care about other people's impressions unless they are very important to me.
However, I lived all my life with the problem that my self-steem was greatly influence for what I think other people thought about me.
This took me into depressions too much times.
I don't know for sure if when I will be low in mood in the future, the same dynamic is going to be repeated. I hope it won't. This is why I made therapy. Lol!