Basically, I just ended things with this guy not too long ago and now I am second guessing myself. I saw him for 2.5 months. At first everything was great and he was talking to me consistently, etc. Then he was acting "off" not answering my calls, taking several hours to respond, going MIA on the weekends for hours. He would always give me this extravagant excuse so I know it was a load of bull. Then he would text me before 9:00 PM and I could tell he was just trying to get rid of me. He gets up at 4 so I thought it was feasible but I could tell he was just trying to get me off his back. Then right after we slept together (stupid move) he started dwindling...takes a full day to answer a text, say he would call and never does, etc. I got sick of it so I basically told him off. At that point I knew he was a player. I haven't tried to get in touch in 5 days. He is a master manipulator and I am sure he thinks I am going to get in touch and apologize for over reacting like I always did. Even when I found him on a dating site trolling (we were supposed to be exclusive) he made it like it was my fault. The only reason I was on there was because I had a gut feeling. But then he told me I just as much at fault.

Anyways so today I am thinking over it and wondering if I did the right thing or if I over reacted. I do not think I did only because he was acting like a flake and being dishonest. I tend to give men too many chances and then afterwards I obsess over it and then tend to take them back and the cycle repeats.

I made an appointment to see a therapist next month. I am just afraid if I don't do something I will never be happy. I repeat the same patterns. The fact that this guy made me anxious the last month tells me that my gut was telling me something was very wrong and I chose to ignore it.

Any thoughts on this?