IDK what the problem is for some...and I have read and reread this thread a few times and can't find anyone putting it down for morals or value judgments funny how some can read things into posts that simply aren't there (and if they are, quote the posts, I want to read them! )

and hey...you never mentioned or put in the poll... anything about in your dreams! oh, and another thing left out ... if you were faithful (well, not YOU but "you") but your spouse or SO had sex with others, does that mean you have had it too? how would you count that? LOL don't worry... just the way statisticians have to figure things when making polls... ok I want to see how others voted now... so which answer should I choose so I can see?