Thanks for that link Ididitmyway. I 'be had a look at it, I really don't know what to make of my T. She is very genuine. Is she misguided? That is the question I wish I could have answered.

Partless, I think she brought my mother in because it may be that my mother didn't understand me when I was a child. But yes, she is looking at my unconscious motive.

There are a lot of positive things about my therapy, but one of my problems with the therapy is I have been sleeping badly since I started, 9 months ago. Before I started I was sleeping solidly through the night.