Hello all,

I am new here and I just wanted some emotional support for my situation. I'm living with and engaged to someone with BPD. I'm often torn between feelings of love for her and the frustration that comes with her symptoms. The symptom that is hardest on me is that she is frequently depressed for no perceivable reason at all and I can't do anything about it. I'm a generally happy guy who makes a lot of jokes and likes to keep things friendly and easy-going, but this doesn't work with her. I have a 70 hour/week job and together I'm running out of energy to be happy myself.

Earnestly, OutOfEnergy