Don't take offence certainly not laughing at your distress just offering an educated opinion on what *might* be going on. How many opinions did you seek? Sometimes it can be hard to get a diagnosis for something like lupus. There are many other conditions that present similar symptoms. What are your symptoms? How did you self diagnose lupus? It wasn't docto Google was it, cos he can come up with all sorts of diagnosis. If you haven't had a second or third opinion from a trained professional it is irrational to get upset that they won't diagnose you.