ML, I haven't read the other replies yet, but something that occurs to me is that your T might be an otherwise great T, but perhaps your and her lives just don't meld right now. You have your specific needs, and she has her specific needs, and those are both clashing often. I'm not suggesting that you should stop seeing her, but maybe these clashing needs just aren't fixable. That doesn't make you an especially needy client, nor does it make her a bad T. Your timetables just don't match...like had you been her client at a different time in either of your lives, it would be a good match, but it's just not working out right now. Have you consulted with a second T about both this situation and your impression of it? My apologies if this was mentioned and I missed it...going back to read the responses.