What happened with him is sadly enough is pretty common, guys are all attentive to get some , well then they trail off. I'm sorry you met a lousy human being like him, but to be honest I bet damn near everyone on the planet has a situation like this.

I think seeing a T is a wonderful idea. It's often hard to follow our "gut instinct" but it's always right in the end..

I'm sorry he has hurt you this way, But move forward , you did the right thing !