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Originally Posted by Velouria
Whenever I'm hypersexual -- really, truly hypersexual -- I never feel guilty over what I am doing. At least, I don't feel guilty enough to let it stop me, even if I shouldn't be doing it. Even if it could hurt someone.
And when I'm not hypersexual, I never, ever feel guilty for pleasuring myself. I just never at any time feel guilty for that.
So I find that point interesting -- that you feel guilty over even self-pleasure. Why do you feel guilty?
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I've been trying to figure out why I feel guilty after self-pleasure. I guess maybe it is because I feel dirty/gross and lonely after I do it. Sometimes I also think I should be spending my time better.
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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2
I've discovered it's to find a booty call with someone that you aren't too attracted too, just enough to be interested like a friend of a friend. Just find somebody that ain't all that into you too, just a mutual sex partner, no strings attached. Oh, you both must agree it's just a sex thing because you don't want to get emotionally vested, if you can. The cuter they are, the harder to resist! Good luck Hun!  |
It would certainly be nice if that could happen. I'm not in a great position in my life to have an actual relationship right now, but I want sex!! XD
Friends with benefits sort of things can get messy though...like if one person actually gets attached and the other does not.
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Originally Posted by quasicrystalline
Wellbutrin helped me have a sex drive pretty much whenever. I miss that stuff so much. Now they think it makes me go manic, so I can't be on it. Hoping I can be once I have a good mood stabilizer in place.
I think even without it, though, I'm somewhat like this. I'll still indulge, but I'll feel INSANELY guilty about it when I'm depressed. Sometimes I trick myself and tell myself it won't and it won't be a big deal, but the high is only ever short-lived. I feel like since I've weened myself off all substances, I find myself turning to sex more, or mostly, self pleasure because I don't want to go down the random person route again, and I'm not in a relationship.
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Is Wellbutrin an anti-depressant? I have heard they can trigger mania, so that makes sense to me. Hopefully it's possible for you to go back on it if it was helping once you, as you said, have a mood stabilizer that works.
Yeah. Self-pleasure is safer than random people, but much less fun. XD
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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV
I don't think you should feel guilt about self-pleasure. And if you just wanted sex, I think you could probably go to a bar and find someone for a one night stand. There are males and females, both that are into that.
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Yeah. That's true. I have no idea how to approach that subject though. "hey, you're hot, want to f***?" Lol. But I go to a local gay club pretty often (once a week or every other week) and there are very attractive girls there. I used to dance with them no problem. Now I think I have gotten a bit more shy which certainly does not help if I want to meet someone (for sex or maybe even way into the future more than that).
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