I do apologize, but I fear some of you may have misconstrued the situation. It is my fault for explaining it poorly. I am the one saying that I do not know if I can change, though I am doubtful. She wants me to change, she agrees with me that change is necessary, but says that if I don't think I can that there is no use to continued treatment, which I think is a fair assessment. I hope that helps to clarify my admittedly brief summary.