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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird
I think you should focus on yourself and getting stable, and when you feel ready to date again, then date. I'm not saying you should stop any relationship you have because you run into instability but when you're going through a lot like you seem to be it may be best to put on the back burner for now
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I agree, especially if you are fragile right now. I am BP and know what a struggle a relationship can be. I have a wife who cares about me alot but really does not understand how I feel. She thinks if I just go back to work and make some money I will feel better about myself...kinda like people who think depression is same as having a bad hair day...WOW. I ponder if my marriage will survive as well but I also realize that me getting better is important as well...maybe even more important than making sure we survive? I read on a website about BP...."no toxic relationships".